ADJUSTMENT IS OUT OF DEPENDENCE AND NOT OUT OF LOVE!
1.
The matters are diverse by their unique
properties and they differ by their uniqueness. But such uniqueness is not a
license given by Nature for independence of matters from each other. There is interdependence between matters in
spite of their unique properties providing them independent identities. The
material inter-dependency creates a force of compelled adjustment between
diverse matters in the midst of their unique properties and independent
identities making them different from each other. For example, non-living
things viz. air and water will not change their unique chemical constitution and
unique chemical properties on one hand and living things will not change their
unique biological constitution and unique biological properties on another
hand, but still living things will have to adjust with unique properties of air
and water because the life of living things is made dependent upon air and
water by Nature. This is compelled adjustment out of dependence. The things
thus do not change, but they adjust with each other out of their compelled interdependence.
2.
The selfishness of living things is nothing but
basic instinct of living things for keeping their unique self-identity intact
in spite of their material interdependence. This selfishness creates its own
ego and hence selfishness can also be called as egoistic selfishness. But the
Nature has kept this egoistic selfishness of living things within control by
forcing upon them their compelled adjustment related to their material
interdependence.
3.
What you can learn from this reality of Nature
is that you should not change your originality for the sake of others unless
others are ready to change their originality for your sake and if such change
is not possible at both ends, then adjust out of interdependence, if it exists.
4.
Each unique property of diverse things has its
own utility for material interdependence and material coexistence. Always
remember that people will stay with you so long as you are useful to them out
of your unique property and its unique utility making them dependent upon you. Once
you lose your utility, they will lose their dependency upon you making them
free from your attraction. The people will then leave you without much
hesitation and your own nears and dears are no exception to this bitter truth
of Nature. In conclusion, it can only be said that the adjustment is mainly out
of dependence and not out of any love. –Adv.Baliram More
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