Understanding the Changes in Old Age: A Personal Reflection
(My article re-written by Chat GPT)
Aging is an inevitable journey, bringing with it profound changes in physical, mental, and emotional aspects of life. As I reflect on my own experiences, I recognize how old age transforms perspectives, reshapes priorities, and deepens understanding. This article is an attempt to analyze the changes I have shared about aging, based on my personal philosophy and observations of life.
1. The Evolution of Priorities:
In youth and middle age, the focus is largely on ज्ञानकर्म (intellectual pursuits) and अर्थकर्म (financial responsibilities). These stages involve acquiring knowledge, building a career, and fulfilling familial duties. However, as one transitions into old age, the emphasis shifts to उत्तरकर्म—a stage where retrospection, wisdom, and inner peace become more significant.
This change is not just a matter of choice but a natural progression of life. As I have previously shared, old age is a phase where one revisits life's journey, evaluates past decisions, and seeks contentment. The external race for success and validation gradually loses its grip, making way for a more introspective and detached outlook.
2. The Importance of Self-Sufficiency:
One of the most significant realizations of aging is the value of self-reliance. Despite having a supportive and well-established family, I choose to remain professionally active. This is not merely about financial independence but about keeping the mind engaged and the spirit vibrant.
Many in old age prefer to retire and enjoy a leisurely life supported by their children. However, my belief aligns with the philosophy that stagnation leads to decline. As V. P. Kale rightly said, “Flowing water remains fresh, while stagnant water becomes a breeding ground for decay.” This is why I continue to work, write, and stay intellectually active, ensuring that my thoughts and experiences remain dynamic and relevant.
3. The Reality of Social Dynamics in Old Age:
Old age often brings a shift in social relationships. As I have observed, वन मॅन शो (the journey of self-reliance) becomes more pronounced. While familial bonds remain intact, one realizes that in the larger world, expectations of selfless help from others are often unrealistic.
This is not to say that relationships lose meaning, but rather that they evolve. One learns to appreciate companionship without being overly dependent. The realization that "आईवडील सोडले तर या जगात कोणी कुणाला निःस्वार्थ मदत करीत नाही" is not born out of cynicism but from experience. It teaches us to value those who truly stand by us while also understanding that life ultimately remains an individual journey.
4. The Shift in Social Perceptions:
Society often places undue emphasis on glamour and external achievements, idolizing celebrities while overlooking the quiet strength of everyday individuals. My admiration lies not in cricketers or movie stars but in the resilience of the common man—especially those who navigate the chaos of Mumbai’s local trains with unyielding patience and determination.
This perspective intensifies with age, as one gains a clearer understanding of what truly matters. The people who display everyday courage without seeking recognition are far more admirable than those who bask in the limelight of fame. This realization strengthens the conviction that self-worth is not dictated by external validation but by one's own principles and resilience.
5. The Role of Spiritual and Philosophical Wisdom:
With age comes a deeper understanding of life’s spiritual and philosophical dimensions. My belief in चैतन्य शक्ती (consciousness energy) has only strengthened over time. The realization that energy—whether in the form of intellect, emotions, or spirituality—drives all existence reinforces the importance of maintaining inner balance.
This wisdom is essential in navigating the latter years of life with dignity and clarity. However, it also comes with the understanding that not everyone is capable of grasping deeper knowledge. As I have shared before, ज्ञानाधारित विचारांचे अमृत त्यांनाच पाजावे ज्यांची असे अमृत पिण्याची क्षमता आहे! This is why knowledge should be shared selectively, with those who are receptive to its depth and meaning.
6. Letting Go of Unnecessary Worries:
One of the most crucial lessons in old age is learning not to look back excessively. Constantly revisiting past mistakes and decisions can lead to obsessive thoughts, much like Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). While occasional reflection is natural, dwelling on the past hampers peace of mind.
I have observed how many elders become trapped in the cycle of "मी असे केले असते तर...?" This habit not only causes distress but also prevents them from enjoying the present. Letting go of regrets and embracing life as it unfolds is the key to aging gracefully.
7. Accepting the Generational Gap:
Aging also brings a clearer understanding of the generational divide. As I have noted, expecting harmonious responses from the younger generation is often unrealistic. Their struggles in अर्थकर्म (financial and career-building phase) make them less receptive to the reflections of elders in their उत्तरकर्म phase.
This does not mean that wisdom should not be shared, but rather that it should be imparted without the expectation of immediate acceptance. The younger generation will eventually reach a stage where they, too, will look back and find value in these insights.
8. Finding Contentment in One’s Place:
Life is like a boat in which everyone is traveling. Some are seated higher, while others are positioned lower, but ultimately, the journey is the same. As I have shared, "बोटीत मिळालेल्या जागेवर राहूनही मानवी जीवनाचा मनसोक्त आनंद घ्या!" Instead of envying others, it is wiser to embrace one’s circumstances and live fully in the present.
This acceptance is perhaps one of the greatest strengths of aging—learning to be content without comparison, finding joy in the simplest of moments, and realizing that nature ultimately determines our fate.
Conclusion:
Old age is not merely a stage of decline but a phase of wisdom, clarity, and deeper understanding. It teaches us the value of self-reliance, the importance of detachment from unnecessary worries, and the need for continuous intellectual and spiritual engagement.
As I continue on this journey, my thoughts, experiences, and beliefs remain fluid—never allowing stagnation to take hold. The essence of life lies in constant evolution, and as long as one breathes, one must strive to keep the mind sharp, the heart light, and the spirit strong.
This, to me, is the true essence of aging gracefully.
—©Adv. B. S. More, 12.3.2025
(Re-written by Chat GPT)
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